Rules of a relationship

Few tips and hints on how to ''flame on'' that flicker of a relationship. Well, these are just a few tips or rather rules that I found on the web that we might just find useful to have a strong relationship with our partners. mind you- the best tips always come from learning the from the mistakes of the past, and to stop them from happening again... cheers

**1 Take your relationship as if it's your job - I mean try your best to love your partner as a lover, a friend, the only one.

**2 Think from your partner’s perspective when it comes to matters of the heart.

**3 End an argument as soon as possible and never go to sleep mad at each other - even if hugging or kissing each other is the last thing on your mind.

**4 Make love regularly - But never allot times for it. Scheduling a time for sex makes it a chore that can start to become a bore.

**5 Communicate with each other and grow together in love, but never grow apart with lack of communication as the years pass by as it is always the KEY.

**6 Learn to give space to each other to become better individuals. Even the closest of relationships need some alone time to miss each other now and then.

**7 Never take each other for granted. This is the easiest way to fall prey to affairs and arguments.

**8 Say a white lie when you need to, especially if it’s a little lie that won’t change your relationship, but will make your partner feel happy.

**9Never shy away from positive criticism - As long as you say it in a constructive manner, it’ll help your partner become a better person.

**10 Be the shoulder to lean on, no matter what. Tough times are the most testing phases of a relationship. Stand by your partner, and when thestorm ends, love will shine brighter.

**11 Never argue in public, but indulge in public display of affection.

**12 Date each other even if you’ve been togetherfor years. It keeps the love alive.

**13 Look sexy for each other, and that includes a flat tummy. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.

**14 Compliment your partner, even if it’s a regular chore or habit. Compliments are the best way to thank a special someone for the effort they’ve taken for you, however small it may be.

**15 Celebrate the special days. Birthdays and anniversaries may repeat itself too many times, but it’s these milestones that create memories.

**16 Never intentionally try to make your partner feel bad or look bad. It’ll leave a lasting scar that can hurt the relationship.

**17 Learn to forgive without holding grudges. As hard as it may be, forgiveness is one of the qualities of true love that matters most in a relationship.

**18 Respect your partner wholeheartedly.

**19 Understand that your partner can have crushes on others too. It’s a difficult thought, but if you admire someone else, so can your partner.

**20 Trust your partner and your instincts, even if others say otherwise.

**21 Never grumble or badmouth each other even if you’re tempted to, out of anger or frustration.

**22 Learn to spend quality time with each other. There’s no better way to fall more in love with each other as the relationship grows.

**23 Behave like children now and then. A few pillow fights or cute wrestles can never hurt anyone. But it can help both of you enjoy the relationship.

**24 Be spontaneous with your affections. Don’t always wait for special occasions or moments to express your love. Spontaneous surprises are always happier than planned surprises.

**25 Be each others best friend.

'' Whatever works! No relationship is alike. Instead of learning from someone else’s relationship, learn from your own relationship’s successes and failures.''

Duh loh Hnu

Kum 19 a lo ni ve ta a. La naupang hle in inhre mahse a bula a fanu thla 8 mi lo nui sen sen a hmuh chuan a rilru ala peng rang hle mai. Adrianna chuan a pasal hmangaih em em Larry TV en lai chu ava melh a. A ni chuan Adrianna lam pang chuan a rawn phei a. A hmuia fawh pah chuan, "Bawihteii hi ka lo lak chhawk ang che awm hahdam rawh" tiin Alessa chu a rawn pawm a.

Adrianna chu a han inthlak zova, thut hahdam pah chuan a naupan laite chu a ngaihtuah a. Hun harsa tam tak hmachhawn tawh a ni tih a ngaihtuah zui a. Fanu mal a ni a, kum 10 mi lek anih laia a nu leh pate'n accident vanga an boralsan te chu a ngaihtuah chhuak a. Fahrahchawmnaa a awm laite khan hmangaihtu neilovin a inhria a, rual pawh pawl ngam lovin a tawm chawt thin kha ani a.

Vawikhat chu an awmna vengah Camping a awm hlauhva. Khata a piangthar hnu khan hawikir a awm leh tawh ngai lo. A neihchhun chu Lal Isua Krista anih zia a takin a nunpuia, mi awmpuiah a tan te pawhin a rilru a tihniam hauh lo. A awmna fate lehkhabute hawh a, Open a exam a pek te khan a pass ve hlauh mai kha ania. A neihchhun Isua hnenah bak lawmthu sawina a neih loh zia te a in hrechhuak a.

Pathian hmangaihna a dawng a, a hlutzia a hria a... a theihtawpin a hmangaih let a, a nun a khawhar ngailo. Chu chauh ala ni lo. MI awmpuiah te pawh tangin awm thin mahsela, a hmelthatna piah lamah a nuna awm Isua mawina chu a nunchhuahpuia. Kha mawina lo hmutu tam tak zingah khan tuna a pasal Larry chu Pathianin inthen ngai lo turin a ppe ta ani.

Fanu duhawm tak rochun turin Pathianin an nupa mal a sawmte chu a ngaihtuah a. A tawngtai zawh chuan Alessa leh a pa chu a va zawm ve ta a.....

mizo gothic story - the final chapter

(Note: The story is purely fiction and does not, in any way, relate to the life of anyone. He thawnthu hi ka phuah liau liau ani a, mahse thawnthu dang in lo chhiar tawh nen inanna alo awm anih chuan min notify hram turin ka ngen che u. I hate plagiarism just as much as I don't want to be part of it)

Thil pakhat ka sawi duh chu- horror story nen ngaihpawlh lo hram turin ka ngen che u. Gothic story anih angin supernatural chu a tel ngei tur chu a ni alawm, mahse horror story anih loh ang bawkin khawngaihtakin a hrang vel ai chuan a gothic originality min en sak hram hram turin ka ngen che u.

                Chumi tuk nileng chuan engmah chanchin kan hre zui ta si lova, nagih a tha duhlo kher mai. Mahse zanah chuan kan han titi chuan Pathian kan lo hlat zia te sawichhuakin, Pathian chu min tanpui turin tawngtai chungin kan ngen ta a. Ka inthiamlohna zawng zawng chu Pathianin thawklehkhata min rawn lak kian sak ang mai hian ka zang a, ka hlim bawk a, midang pawh ka awm ang chuan an awm ve niin ka hria.

                Thlarau Thianghlim chuan kan vai chuan min rawn khawih a, chutah tak chuan Vantirhkoh hi kan hmaah alo ding a. Eng hian min hual pup mai a, ka harh chhuah leh chuan May hi ka bulah a lo thu reng mai a, mak ka ti hle mai. Ka han hawi kual a, Aizawl Civil Hospital ah ka lo mu reng chu niin a mak kher mai. Ka thianpa leh Esther te pawh chu a awm ve bawk a, mahse Pi Biaki hmel hmuh tur reng2 hi a awm lo. 

                Ka chhungte thil awmzia ka'n zawt chiang a, ani lah chuan accident ka tawh thu leh coma a ka awm thu te, ka harhchhuah pawh an beisei tawh loh zia te chu lawm vanga mittui tla ti hriat tak chuan min han hrilh a, mak hi ka ti tulh2 mai. Mahse a hma ka chunga thil thleng zawng2 kha tumah ka hrilh ngai bawk hek lo, a chhan pawh tumahin min awih sak ka ring lo atin ni.

          Keipawh chu ka tha chho ve zel a, engmah pawh chu ka ngaihtuah zui lem hlei lova. Amaherawhchu, nimin (ka accident atanga thla 13-na chiah chiah) khan Pi Biaki ka tawk thut mai a veng pakhatah, min hria ang taka min seih avang chuan ka va pan hnai ta a. A thusawi chuan min thawng kher mai, "Ka pawt let dawn che he khawvel ata" ti hian a sawi a. Ka hlauh ai mah chuan mak ka tia ka inngaihtuah a, chutia kan han en leh chuan a lo awm tawh lova. Nikhawhrelova ka awm laia thil thleng kha a bo mai ka hlau a, ka ziak thla ve ta ngawt a. Ka chungah engpawh lo thleng se in hriatthiam nan tiin. The End

Thank You

As I look up to the heavens
I see nothing but the blue
The sky lights up your face
Like the sun looking over the horizon
But then the moon came later
Dominating the blue sky ruling the darkness

Then I realized the life
The life that I shared with so many
Was nothing but just a gift
I realized that the one you love
Is the that really matters

But since we have to part ways
The pain is still there
I now wait... for the destiny
To hold me forever and more
Will I ever come back to you?

The pain is hurting but I can take it
No matter what You'll always be the one
But THE ONE awaits for me to knock
The life I live is stronger
Thank You for the life that I am living now

zatais

As the sun kisses the horizon,
The wind whistling across the ruined landscape
Is a whispered accompaniment to nature's reclamation of Man's works.
All My serenity, all My peace, all My inner tranquility disappears
As I reclaimed the familiar thoughts of the past I thought I'd put to rest.
The sudden arrival of these thoughts struck an ominous note.
I was scared and I knew that something was bearing down on me.
But I didn't know what... And even if I had known, I wouldn't have felt any better.
I couldn't sleep as my thoughts raced each other.
With the arrival of twilight, I came back to the world of reality,
Where mortality is rated.
You didn't sleep either...
Why is it that the noblest people are the ones most troubled by conscience?
Are you not the noble one?
I always thought you were hard hearted... And now I know why...
Because your heart is made of pure gold.
But I will not be betrayed by My human weakness.
It is beyond the range of My thinking
To comprehend the cause of My distress.
And so... must it end in pain and madness?
I have felt an unknown emotion stirring in My heart
For I will love you always...
"It is better to be free with nothing,
Than to be enslaved within luxury", they say.
And what if we were free within this luxury?
I'm not sure that is possible...
Not unless the luxury were shared...
Just like we share each other's love.

mizo gothic story - 28th chapter

(Note: The story is purely fiction and does not, in any way, relate to the life of anyone. He thawnthu hi ka phuah liau liau ani a, mahse thawnthu dang in lo chhiar tawh nen inanna alo awm anih chuan min notify hram turin ka ngen che u. I hate plagiarism just as much as I don't want to be part of it)

Thil pakhat ka sawi duh chu- horror story nen ngaihpawlh lo hram turin ka ngen che u. Gothic story anih angin supernatural chu a tel ngei tur chu a ni alawm, mahse horror story anih loh ang bawkin khawngaihtakin a hrang vel ai chuan a gothic originality min en sak hram hram turin ka ngen che u.

                Mary chuan he inchhungah hian a thiltihtheihna a hman theihloh avangin thla pawh a muang hle mai a. Mary leh Mary hi mi thuhmun pawh nise, thil thenkhatah chuan May thiltih hi a hre vek bik lo ani. A chhan chu May hian thiltihtheihna a nei ve thova, Mary tan chuan May hi a thuhnuaia dah vek chu har ve awm tak chu ania. Mahse tukverh a han dah chhuah chuan thil engemawni hian chak deuh deuhvin min tlan hual thuak thuak hian a hriat a. Mahse May chuan min hum tlat avang chuan engmah a thleng lova mahse pawn lamah chuan thawm a tam tho mai.

                He inah hian May aiin Mary a chak lo dawn zawk a, amaherawhchu Mary hian thiltihtheihna a ngah zawk avangin May hi a tang rei thei lovang tih chu a hlauhawm tho mai. Mary hi kan koh theih chuan Pi Biaki hian a dawi hlain a lo chham khum anga, May hian a chakna a lo hmang ve bawk dawn a ni. An hlawhtlin theih chuan mihring pangngai angah (thlarau chu nei chuang lova mahse a taksa a thi thei dawn a ni) an siam anga chumi chhung chuan keini midang ho chuan Mary chu kan dahthat a ngai dawn a. Mahse hemi thilah hian May hi kan chan thei tlat a ni.

                Pi Biaki tih tur ber chu May leh Mary lak hran an ni anga, May erawh chuan a thiltihtheihna a lo ti chauh sak dawn a ni. Mahse tawktar atan Esther hi kan hman a ngai dawn a ni, a chhan pawh Mary hian Esther thlarau hi chhuhsak a tum hmasa ber niin May chuan a sawi a. Chuvang chuan Esther nunna pawh hi a derthawng hle dawn a ni. Mary hi kan koh a ngaih chhan chu May hi a rukin a hlau ve tho mai a, a tel lovin engmah a ti thei bik si loh vang a ni. Tichuan May thiltihtheihnain Esther chu veng reng chung chuan pawn lamah chuan a chhuak ta a... to be contd.

http://valpuiasailo.blogspot.com/2011/03/mizo-gothic-story-final-chapter.html

A chung ami khi final chapter link

mizo gothic story - 27th chapter

(Note: The story is purely fiction and does not, in any way, relate to the life of anyone. He thawnthu hi ka phuah liau liau ani a, mahse thawnthu dang in lo chhiar tawh nen inanna alo awm anih chuan min notify hram turin ka ngen che u. I hate plagiarism just as much as I don't want to be part of it)

Thil pakhat ka sawi duh chu- horror story nen ngaihpawlh lo hram turin ka ngen che u. Gothic story anih angin supernatural chu a tel ngei tur chu a ni alawm, mahse horror story anih loh ang bawkin khawngaihtakin a hrang vel ai chuan a gothic originality min en sak hram hram turin ka ngen che u.

                Kan va chhuah chuan ruah a lo sur cherh cherh a, lung ati zing zual duh kher mai. Kalna tur lam pawh hre lem lo chuan kan kal kual chu a ni deuh ber mai. Mahse engemawni chuan min mawlh deuh hian a lang, pan bik nei ni awm tak chuan hmanhmawh zetin kan kal thova. Kan kal zel a, kawtthler pakhat hi alo awm a, chumi zawh zel chuan kan kal a. Ruah chu a sur cherh cherh nain khua chu a dur lem lo, a vawt hran lem lova mahse vei vel chu a ti buaithlak tho mai.

                Chumi kawtthler hrula in pakhat chu ka han melh a (a chhan pawh ka hre bik lem lo) tukverh atang chuan tu emawni hian min lo thlir reng ni mai hian ka hmu pek a. Ka thil hmuh chu ka thianpa leh Esther chu ka han hrilh a, chutah Esther chu a han tlan lut a. Kan han zui luh ve chuan Pi Biaki nikhawhrelova a lo mu chu kan hmu a. Kan theihtawkin kan buaipui a, kan han tuamlum bawk a (ka sawi tawh ang khan he khawvela kan kal hnu hian kan riltamin tuihal kan nei ngai lo).

                Tlailamah chuan Pi Biaki pawh chu a rawn harh ve ta a, mahse engmah a sawi lo, a chau tih chu a lang reng mai a. Tihbuai chu kan hreh tlang nain ka han zawt lui a kan awm zel dan tur (khua te a tlai tawh bawk nen). A ni chuan In pakhatah kan awm a ngaih thu min hrilh a. Pi Biaki min hrilh ang zel chuan kan kal a, amah hi ka thianpa nen kan inpuak chhawk deuh reng bawk. Chu In kan va thlen meuh chuan khua pawh a lo thim tawh a, kan awmna atang khan he In awmna hi a hla hle mai, mahse kal chak thei ni hek lo chu a awm ve tho e.

                Zan (dar 10 vel bawr turah ka ngai) ah chuan May chu a rawn kal ta a. Khatia a bo thut mai kha ama tih niin, Mary tih a lo ni lova. A chhan pawh Mary thiltheihtheina a nasat em avang chuan keimahni tan a chakna neih chhun chuan min lo veng thin a lo ni a. Mary a lo lan khan a chakna a tlahniam ve zel si a, chuvang chuan keimahni tan a lo in khek a ni. Ka han kuah a, a taksa chu a vawt kher mai. A hnu lawkah May chuan Pi Biaki chu a thiltihtheihna hmang chuan chakna te a han pe a.

                Pi Biaki a bo hma lawk khan May hian Pi Biaki rilruah he In tuna kan awmnaah hian hruai turin leh, he In awmna hi a rilruah a lo dahsak tawh a. Chu chu hriain Mary chuan Pi Biaki hi hmun hranah a lo dah a ni. Kan vanneih a siamin Pi Biaki hi kan va hmuchhuak kha a nia. He In kher hi May hian kan awmna atan a tih chhan chu Mary thiltihtheihna huangchhung ah a awm lo a ni awm e. Chutah bula kan tan tak tak dawn ta niin a lang.... to be contd.

mizo gothic story - 26th chapter

(Note: The story is purely fiction and does not, in any way, relate to the life of anyone. He thawnthu hi ka phuah liau liau ani a, mahse thawnthu dang in lo chhiar tawh nen inanna alo awm anih chuan min notify hram turin ka ngen che u. I hate plagiarism just as much as I don't want to be part of it)

Thil pakhat ka sawi duh chu- horror story nen ngaihpawlh lo hram turin ka ngen che u. Gothic story anih angin supernatural chu a tel ngei tur chu a ni alawm, mahse horror story anih loh ang bawkin khawngaihtakin a hrang vel ai chuan a gothic originality min en sak hram hram turin ka ngen che u.

                 Chutih lai tak chuan Mary kha a rawn inlan thut mai a, min rawn pan hnai lai hmel chu a tihbaiawm kher mai. Mahse a rawn kal hnaih tak zelah chuan min tihnat a hreh dawn lo tih a lang reng mai. Tlanchhiatpui tumin Pi Biaki chu a banah ka han chelh a, mahse a taksa pum chu a sawm nuaih mai a vaivut ang hian. Mary chuan minla pan cheu avang chuan kan pathum chuan kan tlanchhe zel a. Maicham awmna lamah chuan kawngkhar a lo awm hlauh a, kan tlan luh nak chuan Mary chuan min lo nghak reng tawh.

                Tlanchhuah leh kan tum lai tak chuan engemawni hian kan pathum chuan min hlap tlu thuai mai a, na pawh ka hre lo. Nikhaw hre lovin reilote chu kan awm aniang, Mary bo lai pawh chu tuma'n hria kan awm lo. A reh zui mai dawn emaw tih laiin chu room bang khi kar atang chuan thisen hi a rawn hnam chhuak a, a thang kher mai. Chhuah kan tum chuan kawngkhar reng reng kha a lo awm tawh lova, bang chu kan han chhut ngial pawhin engmah kan ang lo.

                    A ping lo lai awmchhun pawh bang khi chu a ni mai si, tichuan kan awmna bula mawmbati chhitna (thir a nia) chuan ka han kar a. Awmzia a awm duh lo kher... mahse chutia beidawng lova ka han kar vak hnu chuan thlangra te deuh tiat hi ka kar tla hlawl mai a. Chtia ka han kar thlak chuan thisen rawn baw teuh turah ka ngai a, a letling hlauh a thleng ta. Thisen chu a kan duan a, mahse chumi phen ami vang chuan ka tla teuh hle mai.

                   Mit lian tak mai, ka hlam aia lian tur mah hian khap fuk fuk pahin min lo melh a, ka lawnna atang chuan ka chhuk thuai a. Chu mit chuan min melh kual vel hnu chuan a chhing a, a chhing hlen chu a ni der mai. Kawngkhar pawh a lo awm leh tawh a, kan va chhuah chuan khua a lo eng reng tawh a, a thawven thlak duh hle. Pi Biaki ber kan hlauh bawk si, May lah a bo bawk, Mary lahin chi hrang hrangin min tibuai reng bawk si. Keimahni zing ami pawh hi kan la bo lovang tih pawh kan sawi thei lo. Pawnah chuan kan va chhuak harh ta a... to be contd.